Mar
27
2009
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The Choice is Always Yours!

One thing that affects many people in this world is this fact: When things go wrong or awry in MOST people’s life…. many of us have the tendency to “point the finger”, and blame somebody else.

Think about about… have you ever blamed a teacher for getting a bad grade in school… when it was really your fault, because you didn’t study hard enough?

Have you ever blamed other people, for your bad attitude… or perhaps for a mistake that was TOTALLY your fault… when you VERY well know you have control over your own actions and emotions?

Have you ever blamed a merchant or the bank for a bounced check… or a overdraft on a debit card purchase… when it was really your fault, because you spent more money than was in your checking account?

If any of these things has ever happened to you… don’t get mad or ashamed… because they have ALL happened to me!

As positive, abundant people, who grow better on a daily basis… we must learn to take RESPONSIBILITY for our own actions. Although things, the environment, the people that are around us may make things difficult… in the end, whether we win or lose, succeed or fail… is all in our hands.

This day my friend, please understand that the choice is ALWAYS yours! Whether you choose to win or lose, whether you chooce to succeed or fail… the ball is ALWAYS in your court… you are ALWAYS in control.

Make the VERY best of every situation that you face in life… and accept responsibility for the good or the bad choices you make. But whatever happens in the end… know that YOU are the Master of the choices that you make.

Be blessed and have a GREAT weekend!



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Written by Daniel Wiafe in: Attitude,Encouragement,Inspiration | Tags: , , , , ,
Mar
27
2009
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If You’re Not Ready to Change for the Better… then DON’T Read This!

Earlier this week, my good friend and old college classmate from Oklahoma State U, Jasper Nhira, tagged myself and about 25 of his other Facebook friends in a VERY intriguing note that he wrote… that was short, concise, to the point, and on time!

So after reading this powerful note he wrote… I decided to take a week’s vacation from writing, and send it to the 200+ members of this Facebook group… and the hundreds more that follow the daily motivational blog at TodayAbundance.com

Enjoy!

My Decision To Change, What About You?

If what you’ve been doing isn’t working then do something new.

I’ve been reflecting on where I am and where I want to be and I’m not completely satisfied with where I’m at. Don’t get me wrong, I’m thankful for where God has brought me but I know I could be further.

Some people say that the best athletes and people in general are those who are never satisfied with where they’re at but constantly seek to be better. I guess that’s how I feel?

But instead of just whining and complaining I began to look at ME to see what I’m doing that’s holding me back from this place called “further.” That place is different for each one of us but for me “further” is a wife, a home, a career, a business, a ministry, the list goes on and on.

The main thing is that I am no longer waiting on a mystical movement from God or anyone else that will bring the things I have just listed to me. I’m going to take heed to James 2:17, “Even so faith, if it has not works, is dead, being alone.”

I am going to work harder then I’ve ever worked before to get what I want out of this life. God is still my source and He will give me favor and guidance but he will not do the work for me, therefore I’m going to work, work and work hard for the things that He and I want for myself. I hope you do the same

Make the decision to Change!

Jasper
http://www.myspace.com/jasper011



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